When you see us moving past you quickly:
Don’t take offense or think we’re trying to “show off”. Ninety five percent of
the time, we’re trying to get out of your blind spot or taking ourselves out of
a potential dangerous situation that has evolved around us. Distancing ourselves
from you does not mean we want to race, but that we’re giving ourselves the edge
we need at the moment.
When you hear our horn:
Don’t take offense or think we’re trying to aggravate you. All we’re doing is
letting you know where we are in relation to you on the road, and we’re more
than likely aware of your inattentiveness to us while you’re talking on a cell
phone, eating, reading or involved in some other distracting aspect to your
driving. It’s important to us, and you, that you know we’re there.
When you hear our loud pipes:
Don’t become angry and hostile toward us. Yes, some are quite loud, but for
some, there’s a purpose behind being loud. It’s about letting you know we’re
close by and we’re constantly hoping that our investment in this accessory will
help save our lives. Our pipes are really not about our ego…it’s a pride and
personalization to our form of transportation.
When you see us in our clothes:
Don’t become fearful of us or think us weird. Our leather jackets, chaps, gloves
and boots are the barriers between loosing massive amounts of flesh should
something cause us to go down…nothing more, nothing less. Safety gear is
paramount to our riding. We wear patches on our jackets, and pins on our vests.
These are symbols of pride and honor within our group(s), individuals giving
back to those who gave. These things bond us as a brotherhood and sisterhood
among bikers. Not that we’re better than anyone else, but that we have the same
kind of nobility and pride in our accomplishments as you may have in the various
aspects of your life. I guess one could say; our patches and pins are the decals
and the bumper stickers of our involvement with society and the general public,
of which we are very pleased to be a part of in our own little way.
When you see us in a restaurant:
You don’t have to shield your child or feel intimidated. We have family, wives,
husbands, children and loved ones too, just like you. We smile; we laugh and
enjoy the moments we have. We are approachable, and would befriend you, if given
the opportunity.
When you see us in a parking lot:
Don’t convince yourself that we’re there to “get you”. More than likely, we just
finished a long ride and are taking a break. Or, we may be meeting up with other
riders for a charity run for young children, or another very worthy cause. We
may just be admiring one another’s bikes, sharing our pride with other brothers
and sisters, just like you do with your personal vehicle. It’s what we do…it’s
a part of our lives, and we’d be more than welcome to share with you what riding
a bike is all about…if you’d only ask.
When you see aggressive riding bikers:
Don’t put us all in the same stereotypical category as those whose behavior and
actions would cause you to react in disgust and intolerance. Many of us do not
agree with this style of riding either, and we know and understand that human
nature tends to blend us all together as the “same group”. Most of us don’t want
that title…and don’t deserve it.
When you see a group of bikers on the roadways:
Give us the courtesy of sharing the road with you. Please don’t “move in”
between several bikers in formation. This gets us very excited and nervous,
especially when it’s done with no due regard for our safety. Provide us with
your awareness of the fact that we are much more vulnerable than you. We don’t
want to challenge you, for all of us are wise enough to know…we’d lose that
battle.
When you are turning left or entering a roadway/highway:
Look, then look again…and then one more time. For we can be easily hidden, and
appear to be invisible by such things as a telephone pole, another vehicle,
bright lights or the glare of the sun…or possibly, the beads hanging from your
rearview mirror, among numerous other items that are displayed there. If you see
us flashing our lights at you or blowing our horn, we’re only trying to ensure
that you will see us before tragedy changes both our lives.
When you are behind us:
Please give us the room we need and don’t tailgate us. If you hit us, we’re
going down…HARD! We don’t want to play games with you, we just want to enjoy
the ride and the fresh air, and experience that which many of you have never
lived for. If we accelerate away from you, don’t interpret this action as though
we want to drag race you. We’re only trying to take ourselves out of a bad
situation if you insist on being too close.
When, and if, you experience road rage:
Don’t take it out on us just because we’re smaller than you and more vulnerable.
Think about what you’re doing and the end result that may become a reality. The
consequences of your actions and choices could be very detrimental to our well
being, our families, our children and our loved ones. Yes, there are those that
can tend to piss you off, however, rage towards them will not solve the issues,
but accentuate them. Nine out of ten bikers will do everything they can to take
themselves out of that situation without causing you or them harm.
When you have an opportunity to talk to us:
You’ll discover, outside any influenced or stereotypical mindset you may have,
that we are just as human as you are, just with different interests and toys.
Many of us would give you the shirt off our back if it would tend to brighten
your day or console you in some way. We’re really no different… and we drive
cars, trucks and vans too. So, meet us and greet us…I think you’ll be
pleasantly surprised that you’ll be met with open arms.
Thank You for attempting to understand!
(written by a member of BACA – Bikers Against Child Abuse – help is out there in the most unexpected ways)
